1. Do either of you want support?
2. (To the Mirror) Set your psychic boundary.
3. Do you understand this is about you, not this man here? (He is your Mirror.)
4. What’s the Data? (Objective reality, just the facts.)
5. What Judgments do you have about this man’s behaviors? (Say, I judge that...)
6. What kind of person would do that (or say that)?
7. What Feeling(s) does this bring up for you?
8. Who’s behavior does this remind you of?
9. Where in your life today do you do the same thing? (Judgments from #5)
10. Is some of that energy attached to this situation, to this man?
11. Will you withdraw the projection? (Own that your Judgments are about you?)
12. Now that you see all of this more clearly, what do you want for yourself?
13. Moving forward, what do you want for your relationship with this man,
knowing you might not get it?
14. Are you complete for now?